Dating is, of course, the spice of life, but what happens if the person you have been seeing for months drops out, and you are left wondering ‘WTF’? Things were great, you were always hooking up, he texted you all the time, he had cute nicknames for you…so what happened? Why did things end?
Then it dawns on you: Was I just a hookup? There is confusing ground between ‘were you a girlfriend?’ and ‘were you just a hookup and there is nothing more to it?’. When they leave, they leave you with a million questions, and how are you suppose to know what to think? Freehookups wants to help you realize that maybe your hookup was nothing more than just a one time thing.
It sucks to have it brought to your attention that you were nothing but a hookup for someone when you thought it was something more. However, if they won’t give you the closure that you need to move on, then let us help you out with that. While it does suck, at least some measure of closure is better than no closure at all. It’ll help you move on and look for these signs in the future.
There are a million and one ways to turn a hookup into a relationship, but at the end of the day, if they don’t want to be with you, they just won’t be with you. You need to face the facts: worst case scenario, you end up alone, for now. You got this though babe. There are always a million other fish in the sea, and there is someone out there who wants to spend their time with you.
We hope that our list has brought you some much needed closure. Just because you were only a hookup to them, does not mean you will just be a hookup to someone else. You know what to look for now, so can stop it early on before it gets too far again, and you get hurt. Freehookups has plenty of people for you to meet tonight and help you on your healing process.