It sucks when you meet someone truly amazing and you have this great connection, but then you find out that he only wants to hook up. It kills a little part of us on the inside. However, Freehookups has taken it upon themselves to help you find out the signs and help you know if all he wants to do is hook up.
When we talk about signs, we are talking about how he talks to you, how he acts, what his body language says about him. There’s only so much you can judge without help. So, let Freehookups help you pick out signs you probably didn’t even realize were signs. It will be better for you in the long run when you realize that you are better off without him.
When you two go out, or meet up or even snapchat each other, how are his compliments towards you? Are they about how smart and amazing you are? Or are they about your looks, appearance, body, etc? When he is always complimenting you on your looks and appearance, that means that he is not looking at anything else. He doesn’t notice that you are super smart or that you are a great singer. All he knows, is that you have a hot body and you look hot beside him. This is a sure-fire way to know if he is just a hookup.
While we are on the subject of him texting you how hot he thinks you are, does he try to turn every conversation you have into something sexual? You ask him how his day was and he responds with "It would be better if you were here naked." This kind of talk is cute every now and again, but if this is happening all the time, then you have a hookup on your hands.
While being on the subject of hookups, we also want to discuss the main difference between a f*ckboy and a hookup. People seem to think they are one in the same, and they aren’t necessarily wrong, but they aren’t fully right either. There is a saying that goes along with being a f*ckboy: "Enter her life, mess things up and leave. Then text her ‘I miss you’ every two months when she tries to move on." In a nutshell that is what a f*ckboy is and does. A hookup is more open about the fact that you two are just hooking up. While he might not use words, he will use obvious signs like the ones we talked about. However, he won’t stick around just to hurt you. That’s the upside.
While it is not always necessarily a bad thing to have just a hookup, it sucks when you aren’t sure and think that the situation is more than what it is. We hope that knowing these signs has helped you figure out what you want to do about your situation. You can stay and have fun or you can bolt and find someone who actually wants to commit. The choice is yours, we just want you to be informed.
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